Review by children's author Ella May
The detail of the cookies he hid in his grandmother's sari was very touching. It's not part of my culture to do that, but this story made me wish I had done something similar!
What a beautiful, soothing story of life after death! I was worried I wouldn't like it at the very beginning because no one was explaining to Shashi what had happened. No matter how difficult the topic, I think it's unfair to leave a child out in the cold like that. Once Shashi is told the story of his grandmother becoming a star, I enjoyed it the rest of the way through.
I loved that the grandmother character was a strong, smart woman, as well as a much-loved grandma. I also loved the interplay with her husband. I had never heard this story/ legend before, and I'm happy to share it with my children to start a conversation about the grandfather they have already lost, as well as what might happen when we inevitably lose other family members. The magic ladder idea is attractive to kids. It gives them something to focus on and wonder about, even in the midst of grief, I imagine. "Do you think Grandma is climbing the ladder now?" "What do you think she said to the moon?" "Shall we look for her in the sky?" I wish there were more books like this which combine an interesting aspect of culture with a big issue like the loss of a loved one.
Review by Bonnie Ferrante on Goodreads
There were two points in the story that brought tears to my eyes. One was when the little boy was told that his grandmother would have to journey for three days on the magic ladder. The second moment was when the grandmother was reunited with the grandfather.
This is a rather different story about what happens after death. When Shashi's (a little boy) grandmother dies, we follow her journey up the magic ladder into the sky to become a star with your previously deceased husband. Although the story begins with tears and grieving, once we switch to the Grandma's point of view it is sweet, peaceful and reassuring.
Grandma is an amazing woman, kind, courageous, appreciative, and positive, so much so that as she journeys all who encounter want her to stay. But even though the journey as long and somewhat arduous she continues to climb the ladder for three days to reach her husband and become a star. The reader cheers Grandmother on as she travels believing in her success and anxious to see Grandma's dream to become a star of reality.
If you have definite beliefs as to what happens after death, this would still be a good book to share with your child to explain that different religions and cultures have different beliefs. If you are unsure or uncommitted as to what happens after death, this book will encourage some interesting discussions. Suitable to be read with parents for children ages 4 to 10.
Review by Carrie Mortleman on Goodreads
I love the Indian references and words and seeping culture that drips through the book.
The author deals beautifully and sensitively with a very difficult subject (death) and older children would especially appreciate the story. I'd like to see more textured painted dreamscape images to match the very beautiful journey of words.
Review by Maggie Larche on Amazon
The story is straightforward enough for a child to follow along, but it really weaves an elegant tale out of its simple components.
This is a lovely folktale about a grandmother climbing a ladder to the stars after her death. She makes some friends -- a monkey, a cloud, the moon -- on her journey to reunite with her departed husband. Her story is bookended with her grandson Shashi's story and how he and his family deal with their grief over her passing.
This book also has beautiful, vivid illustrations to go with the text. I read the ebook version, but I'd really recommend getting a a print edition if there is one. I think the pictures would be gorgeous on paper.
Review by Lana Axe on Goodreads
If at all possible, it would be best to read this story to a child a few times before they have experienced that loss. That way, Mom and Dad can simply say, Grandma has now climbed that ladder. Remember all the beautiful things she saw along the way? Let's look for her star in the sky.
This is a beautifully written story for children, aimed at helping them cope with the loss of a grandparent. It is best read aloud to younger children, but children over age 7 should have no trouble reading it by themselves. Though I think it's a fantastic story for a parent and child to share together.
I especially appreciated the parts describing Grandma's journey. Rather than only focusing on the happenings in Shashi's life, it switches views to allow a child to witness what Grandma is experiencing. That is a wonderful way to show a child that death can be a beautiful experience, and to help them understand what has happened. Shashi never seemed sad that his Grandma had gone. Instead, he is left with beautiful memories of her. And that's how it should be for every child. All he needs to do when he misses her is look up at the stars, and she will be there next to Grandpa. I think that's a beautiful message for young children, and one that will bring them great comfort.
Review by children's author Graham Garrity
The author, Priya Narayanan, has taken a difficult and emotional subject and crafted a book that is both heart-warming and charming.
Although this story mentions Hindu rituals I feel that it has a universal appeal and children and adults of whatever religion will be able to relate to this story. As I read it I pictured my own grandmother, who died many years ago when I was a child, climbing the ladder to the stars. And I am sure that any child who has lost a grandparent will readily picture their own loved one ascending to the heavens. This is a book that can easily be read at one sitting. The cover and the pages are beautifully illustrated and these illustrations, besides being visually appealing, provide talking points that can be discussed between parent and child.
Review by Melissa Gill on Amazon
This story has a magical folktale like quality that is destined to be passed on to provide comfort in times of trouble.
I really enjoyed this unique and beautiful story. It's difficult to explain death to young children, especially when you are grieving. A picture book is an excellent tool. Some parents may object to the idea of choosing to become a star rather than go to heaven. This may not mesh with the Christian beliefs of some. However, this may be the perfect book for someone attempting to explain death in a more secular manner, or for people from other faiths. Overall this was a great story with a lot to offer families experiencing grief.
Review by Janelle McGuiness on Goodreads
Indian culture is mentioned throughout the book but the messages transcend any language.
This book deals with the subject of death through the eyes of a little boy and the journey his grandma takes to get to the afterlife. It has a beautiful and magical sentiment throughout. Indian culture is mentioned throughout the book but the messages transcend any language. It is quite a long book so the age group is more for older children - 7-10 maybe?
Review by Heather on Amazon
When Grandma Climbed the Magic Ladder is a sweet book that explains the transition between life and death in a very magical way.
The book provides a wealth of cultural information and is clearly designed to show this transition as not just a time to be sad, but also as a time to rejoice in all the love a family provides and provided. The topic and words may be a little much for young readers, but this is a great book that a parent can use to help explain the passing of a loved one.
Review by author John Dorey on Goodreads
You can feel the love that was put into the writing itself and it just makes the story even better.
This book is a very well written, interesting take on a tough subject, the passing of loved ones. Sometimes trying to explain what this means to little ones is not easy but this book has a theory that's both simple yet pleasing. The artwork is well done and the story flows well from beginning to end. I enjoyed reading and even learned a little about a culture I'm not familiar with.
Review by Tabitha Peterson on Goodreads
An exquisitely illustrated, decorated and finely polished children's picture book! With strong themes from India, anyone, anywhere will enjoy it. I loved the intricate artwork, the multitude of animals across each page, and the journey the book takes the reader on. A splendid little book!
Review by Mr. Vijay on Amazon
The book touches memories that we carry in ourselves of our dear ones always, even when we cannot see them anymore. Very nice book to logically explain the departing of a family member to a child, flows very smoothly, brings joy and smiles as we read along.